The Trouble With Abstinence Pledges

• Abstinence pledges are only as good as the commitment made to them.
  • The motivation behind making the pledge is crucial. If the pledge is made for appearances or to please someone else, chances are it will not stand.
  • However, if the pledge is made with purposeful intent and for the right reasons, chances are that it will be effective.
• Those who make abstinence pledges need a positive support system in place.
  • Involved parents
  • Positive peer support
  • Encouragement from youth leaders
• Dating guidelines and safeguards are an important element in enabling teens to stay committed to abstinence.