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November 01, 2005

Why Tell the Secret? Part I

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I encountered a post-abortive woman recently that asked me that question. She had been through the “healing process” and wanted to know why it was important to tell her children of her abortion. I have thought about that question several times since that encounter. Is it enough just to be healed? Or are there valid reasons why we need to tell others? Over the next few days we will visit this topic as we examine why it is indeed important to tell the secret to certain significant people such as our spouse, our children, and others. (Of course there are other criteria that should be considered before telling the secret. Look for more on how and when to tell the secret in the coming weeks.)

  • Knowledge gained at such a high price should be shared, not hidden. If you knew then what you know now about abortion, would you still have chosen it? Knowledge gained from books and from the stories of others is valuable, but knowledge gained from personal experience is of inestimable value. To be able to say, "I've been there. I know." is knowledge bought with experience and bears an authority unlike any other. Knowledge is power, especially when the topic is one where misinformation (and deception) is more plentiful than truth. Don’t waste the knowledge you gained from your experience by keeping it secret. What you have in your abortion experience – from the point of view of having been through the healing process – is like a diamond that was mined at one of the greatest costs to mankind. Don’t keep that gem hidden away. Bring it into the light so it may reflect the light of God’s love and forgiveness, and so it may be useful to your children.

    Look for Part II of this series tomorrow.

    Posted by mary at November 1, 2005 12:47 PM
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